You’re the Biggest Part of Me… Class of 85

“All it takes is one song to bring back a thousand memories” – Unknown

It’s Labor Day and approximately 90 days past my original attempt at this post. It began with a trip to California to celebrate my nephew Garrett’s wedding the first week of June.

Being the ultimate travel planner (or at least in my vivid imagination) my initial goal was to make a brief stop in Las Vegas for a couple of days with an end game of catching Kenny Chesney at the Sphere.  A few days of poolside sun made the itinerary; No Shoes Nation did not.  (I traded the expense of concert tickets for a second summer adventure.  Saratoga Springs racing season for the win. But that is a story for another day.)  During the four hour flight to Sin City, I stumbled across a documentary chronically the birth of Yacht Rock music.

Being a creature of habit with a knack to embrace my seasonal luxuries, there are hard and fast rules in holiday celebration that I hold firm. You won’t catch me listening to Christmas music until the day after Thanksgiving.  Then it is nonstop Bing and the boys crooning away with a sprinkle on Mariah and Amy Grant until the clock strikes 12 on December 25.  Yet the jolly holly day isn’t the only seasonal playlist that I am loyal too.  A few years ago, I discovered a summer station that made my 15-year-old heart melt, Yacht Rock radio.

Between Memorial Day and Labor Day, Yacht Rock graces my satellite radio as a designated channel.  And for the sunshine months, I enjoy some of my favorite tunes from my teenage years.  What a pleasant surprise on that faithful flight on June 1, to stumbled across a documentary that chronicled the mystery of this nontraditional genre. 

The Yacht Rock movement to my surprise was more than a collection of songs I enjoyed formatted into a single playlist.  Did you realize that much of this music stirs from a collection of talent combined in infinite combinations? Back in the 80s it was common for musicians or vocalists to assist in the studio across a variety of artists. Don’t believe me take a moment and grace the credits of half the songs listed on the top 100 Yacht Rock tunes and count how often Michael McDonald’s name appears? Songwriter, lead vocals or studio back up. He was mentioned so often that I began to wonder if he just kept a sleeping bag in his car with a spare tooth brush. The jazzy piano sound combined with the eccentric styles of the perfectionism of Steely Dan or the band Toto as independent studio musicians define the genre that didn’t exist until decades after the music topped the charts.

Fast forward to September 1, where I find myself as a passenger on another United flight headed to Las Vegas for an excursion to the Sphere. This time to skip down the yellow brick road and to see my pals the flying monkeys.  There is no better use of my time, but to finish this blog. And ponder on why a piece of music history can make me feel like, there is no place like home?

Yacht Rock was never meant to creep into our airwaves on its own format when the artists were creating the sound.  Born from skits and crooners making fun of this little slice of 80’s music it became a collection of sounds that reflected similar styles and characters.   No captain hats or boats required, the definition included a smooth, jazzy piano sound featuring soulful voices of Micheal McDonald or Kenny Logins.  Engrossed in the 95 minute documentary, I viewed a story of music that shaped my teenage years through my early twenties and rolled me back to 1985.

What happen forty years ago? The greatest class of the 80’s graduated from High School and took their first step into their future. Looking back  at my educational journey it was truly a combination of Mayberry meets Surfing USA.  I proudly place myself as part of two classes of 1985, roughly two hours apart in driving distance and as diverse in lifestyle as any country girl could imagine. And I am was the lucky one to have experienced all of my classmates from both Templeton and Carpenteria.

Shawna, Eddie & Me

I began my first day of kindergarten with many of the same a faces that I walked across the stage with twelve years later in the Templeton gym to receive our high school diplomas. During the sixth year of my scholastic journey, I joined the class of 85 in a the coastal town (sixth grade through my sophomore year) just south of Santa Barbara known for avocados and ornamental horticulture, Carpenteria.   An environment that seemed 10 times bigger (probably closer to 5 times) and culturally on a different planet.  Yet, as I watched the documentary and quietly sing every lyric, I couldn’t help but notice the synergy that created the Yacht Rock sound mirrored the mapping of my childhood journey.

Jazz music is characterized by its emphasis on improvisation, complex harmonies, and syncopated rhythms. It often features a blend of different musical styles and cultural influences, making each performance unique and expressive.  These notes combined with the overwhelming thread of collaboration of artists, song writers and musicians truly is the heart and soul of Yacht Rock music.  And my growing-up game board of skipping through the spaces followed a similar format.

My classmates and friendship groups featured a mix of many personalities from a diversity of backgrounds.  The foundation of our togetherness was a mix of harmonies of interest, unique collaborations, proximity in our daily life and that we were all in this big can of stew together. 

There is nothing like the friends you have in your school days. They are a constant that you can count on day in and day out. As we grow older and embrace friendships in our later years, one can easily yearn for the ease of having a pal in our back pocket at all times.  Let’s face it, it might not always feel this way, but in high school and college, there is always someone a stone’s throw away that is going through the exact same experience.  There were an abundance of opportunities to make a friend or hang out with like minded people.  Hearing the songs of my past, made me pause. Is my love of this music enriched in the sound or how it takes my memories on a soulful journey back to my youthful days.

From school dances to FFA trips, from high school sports to yearbook antics, my life was full of some of the most amazing humans that have ever walked this planet. Being part of the notorious Gen X culture, we might be small in size compared to other generations, but we have the luxury of being at the dawn of countless changes in world and daily life. We were the kids that learned how to cook with a microwave for an after school snack. Our music came in many forms, albums, 8 tracks, cassette or good old fashion AM/FM radio. Back in the days that making the team meant you showed up daily for practice and there was a role for all in the school play, being part of the whole offered a sense of community.

Leadership Class THS 85

Templeton High School class of 85’s final journey was a trip south to the Happiest Place on Earth.  Grad Night at Disneyland was our toast to the past while running straight into our future.  I will admit there was a part of me that knew deep down inside that as we left the bus after the long ride home, it would be the last time I would see many of my classmates.  Yes, there has been weddings, significant birthdays and chance encounters over the years, but there a just a handful of my classmates that I regularly communicate with or see (both Templeton and Carpinteria).  Sure the birth of social media gives us an opportunity to reconnect and “check in”.  But sitting here I figured why wait for a formal event to share what everyone of you means to my life.

Lisa, Julie, Lisa and me CHS 85 – 20 Year Reunion

As the Ambrosia song states, “Got a feelin’ that forever, we are gonna stay together, for me, there’s nothin’ better, you’re the biggest part of me”, the humans that I spent twelve years of my life surrounded by will always be part of my foundation.  The story of Yacht Rock showed that working together always made the whole better.  My classmates are who taught me to love, to laugh at nonsense, feel the value of team work, how to win and how to loose.   Without them I would not be the person I am today.  So here is to all of you from the Class of 85, thank you for being part of my life (big or small)…. you will forever be a huge part of me.

Sit Right Here & Have Another Seltzer in Cincinnati

Lessons Learned at a Kenny Chesney Concert

“Which road I travel is still a mystery to me.” – Kenny Chesney

In my early days as a bright-eyed, eager fair employee, one of my duties was making sure the queen and her court accomplished their daily check list of appearances.  Wrangling three bubbling, enthusiastic, crown baring young ladies had its challenges. Lets just say that not all their actions screamed sugar and spice and everything nice.  But thanks to one of the most inappropriate requests, I had my first encounter with Kenny Chesney. 

A budding country star that opened the show for Alabama in July of 1996, Kenny was straight off his album cover complete with felt hat and blue jeans.  As he exited the stage one of princesses boldly ask if he would sign her chest (well more like the skin right above her chest bone.)  He bashfully, yet eagerly accepted the request with black sharpie in hand, made a few pleasantries with the girls and continued his journey to the backstage compound.  Little did any of us realize that this 27 year old crooner would become a country mega star crossing genres and taking generations to the sand and sea, if only in their mind’s escape.

Fast forward a few more years and Kenny hits had multiplied and landed him a gig on the Headliner Stage.  If you have ever watched his video Just Don’t Happen Twice much of the footage is straight from the Biggest Little Fair Anywhere, complete with bungee thrill ride outtake.  I am not sure if it is my early memories, his love of island life or the way his songs seem too resonant in a way that always makes you stop and think or touch a moment in time and evoke a feeling that these lyrics were written just for you, my appreciation for his talents has stood the test of time. To say I am fan would be an understatement.   But, I am not a big concert goer, the idea of hanging out with a population of people that could fill a small town doesn’t ring “good time” to me. Yet, I have had a bee in bonnet to see Kenny for quite some time.  Taking to my box of fair memorabilia, I discovered that the last time I heard these tunes live was in 2003.  As a matter of fact that was the time, I was offered a margarita backstage by his tour manager who had set up an island, tropical bar in one of the semi-trailers, oh the good ole days.  No Shoes Nation was calling my name and an adventure awaited right around the corner.

Living in Kentucky one of the true advantages is location, location, location.  Checking his concert schedule there were multiple locations within a two hour drive to spend some time with the boy from Tennessee.  A week out from the show in Cincinnati, I pushed the purchase button for a night we won’t soon forget. 

The venue was perfect, I happen to purchase Club Level seats which not only offered us restroom and bar access, but a terrace of patio furniture that ended up being our seats for the night.  So much of the evening flooded my mind with memories of the years in the business and how every night is a new adventure, challenge to tackle and tunes to sing along.  Case in point we had a small weather delay, as I witness the staff ushering the concert goers off the floor for a brief stay under cover, I thought this place has great customer service.  Opening additional concession stands, offering seating in a “dead” space behind the stage, and giving frequent updates, you could easily tell this wasn’t their first rodeo.  As a crew member climbed to the top the stage roof to “sweep” off the accumulation of water, I was mesmerized of his lack of fear and the show must go on attitude.  Our resident usher Roger had worked the area for many years and told us to stay in our lounge chairs as our location was perfect.  Finally, Megan Moroney came out as cute as a button, blonde hair blowing, and smile as bright as the peach dress she was wearing.  She made it through one song when she announced that her white cowboy boots weren’t cutting in on the wet stage floor and decided to go barefoot for the remainder of her set. The No Shoes Nation attitude was alive and well to kick off the evening.

White Boot Nation

And speaking of white cowboy boots, when did they start being the number one accessory for concert going young ladies?  As I watched the line of them standing briefly in front of me, I couldn’t help but think of a Miller family tale.  And as Kennys’ songs tend to tell stories of the past, there is a very entertaining episode involving my Uncle Merle, Aunt Diana, Uncle Rod and my mom that could start out, “A fashionable, young lady awaited her date to pick her up for a western themed Cal Poly dance wearing white majorette boots. And end with Merle watched his siblings wrestling  over brown shoe polish and his sisters cowboy boots, completely awe stuck.”  But that is a yarn for another time.

As the sun that briefly came back to set in the west, Kenny magically appeared and turned the crowd into an echo machine singing every word along with him for the next few hours.  The evening was the perfect recipe of fun, faith, and leaving your worries behind.  As I danced around displaying my wonderful vocal ability (not), I realized how many songs this man has actually released.  Furthermore, how many of these melodies have a message that we could all use now and then, regardless if we are on an island or sitting in the middle of downtown Cincinnati.  Music for me has always been the soundtrack of your life with different volumes to represent your very own eras.  Developing a life lesson playlist exclusive to Kenny Chesney’s library of songs seems like a good keepsake of the evening.  I am sure you have your favorites, but here is a few to get your collection of hits started.

First off if you are looking for that kick back, vacation, toes in the sand tune, Kenny has these for hours of listening.  He also has many great lyrics that celebrate where you are from, your childhood and lifelong friends.  But with the goal to get your thinking and feeling inspired in a positive way, I am going to start off with a couple that won’t fail your listening ears.

1 – Get Along – #Micdrop right here.  Whether it is turning on the evening news or cruising your go-to social media platform, the amount of distress and upheaval across this planet is epic.  The chorus points out no one is perfect, love triumphs all, action helps the mind, friendship is important and in the end “Can’t we all get along?”

Lilly, me, Nolan and Kayla

2 – Here and Now – When this song began mid-set,  I sent myself a text saying, “What Kayla and I are planning, Here and Now.”  My daughter Kayla and I did what some would think crazy or silly, we went halfway across the nation for 48 hours so that we could spend the 4th of July with her brother and sister.  For Kayla and I there was nowhere else in this world, there was no better place or better time.  How often do we dwell on an event from the past or worry about the future, listen to Kenny’s words instead.  “Everybody’s waiting, but they’re waiting on what?  Better get to living ‘cause all we’ve got is here and now.” Why wait for tomorrow, for what we can enjoy today?

Me, Lorie, Shawna and Tisha

3 – I Go Back – Don’t be accusing me of contradicting my second choice.  Maybe it was the era I grew up, maybe it was that I come from a small town, or it just could be that I am a big ole dreamer, but this song makes me relive so many fabulous memories.  Actually, for me, this song is one of the reasons I wanted to go home for the 4th of July.  I got to hang with my best friend since first grade Shawna, my mom tried to recreate the meal my grandma would prepare complete with homemade potato salad and fresh strawberries and homemade whip cream, and wondering the streets of Templeton with my kids and landing on Fourth Street with the Tucker/ Hammers crew was the quint essential firework to my celebration.  “We all have a song that somehow stamped our lives, Takes us to another place and time”, I dare you to listen to this song and not have flashbacks of happiness.

4 – Never Wanted Nothing More – “Well I’m what I am and I’m what I’m not, I’m sure happy with what I’ve got, I live to love and laugh a lot, And thats all I need”  How many of us can truly say we live this mantra everyday?  How many of us know we should?  Being true to yourself might be the toughest task for anyone to actual accomplish.  And each generation tackles more and more hurdles to get the finish line of self love.  Think about it, today’s young minds have influencers who are an overstated example of what we think is neat and nifty.  Reducing the clutter from our feeds, life, minds and world may help us all get that big hug from inside.  I mean, seriously, being truly happy with who you are and what you got, one would never want nothing more.

5 – American Kids – A little messed up, but we’re all alright.  Please raise your hand if this applies to you?  All of you with your hands in your pockets, I call BS.  The grass isn’t greener, no one has a perfect life, everyone has their demons and guess what according to Kenny we’re all alright.  This is also one of those catchy group of lyrics that you can’t help but sing outloud while your feet can’t stop moving.

6 – I’m Alive – “Today’s the first day of the rest of your life and I am alive and well.”  Think about the first eight words, no truer lyric has ever been sung.  Sometimes we need to stop and remember we are alive, and the future is all that really matters.  Even if you have had the worst day or roughest go of it, breaking it down to the simplest form and realizing that every day you are alive is something to be grateful.  I am a big birthday person.  I don’t get why people belly ache about getting older or making a big deal about “your day.”  The way I look at it is, your birthday is the most important day of your life.  Without it, you wouldn’t be alive and well!

7 – Save it for a Rainy Day – This tune reminds me of a song by Lit called Zip Lock.  The main theme was to put a second chance in a zip lock bag and keep it in your pocket.  Great concept.  Kenny reminds us that even if we are bummed out about life, that we can take that downer and store it away for a rainy day.  Sun’s too bright and sky’s too blue, go out and live your life with hope that tomorrow is yet another glowing day that won’t allow those rainy day blues to enter your world.

Best Seats in the House

8 – Don’t Blink – Every morning I have adopted my own zen/ gratitude/ happy thoughts routine.  Maybe someday I will blog about my system, but in the meantime, let me share one component.  I read a chapter from of 1000 + Little Things Happy Successful People Do Differently.  The other day it stated, “Do you remember that time five years ago when you were extremely upset?  Does it really matter now?”  As I read, a grin appeared on my face.  Was this my own words being stated back at me?  I would say to my college students, “The five year, if it doesn’t matter in five years does it matter now?”  Don’t blink takes the five year rule and puts it in reverse.  If it is going to matter in five years we better take time in the present to enjoy, celebrate and embrace those moments.  Trust me friend a hundred years goes faster than you think, so don’t blink.

9 – Everything’s Gonna  Be Alright – “Tell me something good that I don’t know,’cause this world’s been kicking my behind.”  We all have days that we would rather climb back in bed and start it over again tomorrow.  One of my all time favorite people Mrs. Treva Roth taught me many moons ago a phrase, “This too shall pass.”  And no truer statement has ever been shared.  When life keeps throwing you lemons, take a pause because there ain’t no doubt it’s gonna work out.  Just ask Kenny, I am sure he would agree, everything’s gonna be alright.

10 – Live A Little – “Been going like nothing can wait, I gotta get my priorities straight.”  These words are the perfect closing song that encompasses the entire list into one thought, live a little, love a lot.  Take time for yourself, make sure to schedule some fun and find love.  What more do we need prescribed for healthier lifestyle?

As he closed the show with two of my all time favorites from his hit list, Anything But Mine and Just Don’t Happen Twice, I was beyond happy that we decided to go on this quest to the Blue Chip City.  My energy level on a joyful high, we made our way back to our hotel.  Walking the streets in the dark, quiet forest of skyscrapers, my mind was swirling with the buzz of my inner thoughts and the play back from tonight’s show.  We can all take a few lessons from the words that Kenny shares with his fans through his melodies and more.  What is so wrong with going barefoot, anyway? At the very least we can put our toes in the sand, leave our worries behind and let the warm air melt our blues away.

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