A very dear friend of mine gave me for Christmas a book called “642 Things to Write About” in an effort to encourage my editorial aspirations. So in my second attempt in 2014 to produce a blog post I turned to a random page and selected a topic, How do you feel about love these days?
I instantly thought this will be so easy to write about. Love surrounds us everyday of our lives, this will be a snap. Then the definition flood hit my brain. There are so many descriptions and thoughts that a simple little four letter word like love evokes. Grand stories have been told about true love or love lost. Love has been blamed for horrific tragedies and decade long feuds. Love has served as a scapegoat from time to time. From coffee ice cream to my children I experience love in so many different ways. Can love wear many hats and come in a variety of shapes and sizes? How can I summarize the complexity of a feeling so strong that sometimes it is barely felt?
I love to travel. Give me a plane ticket, a lodging reservation and I am out the door. As I sat staring at the computer screen a light bulb flashed above my head, to me love is a journey. The trip of a lifetime complete with a roadmap full of twist and unexpected turns. There are the long, never ending paths that require a few stops. And if you are lucky a few out of the blue detours. Love is the process not the destination. To love or be loved requires constant movement. Love is challenging work that requires sincere thought and navigation and an ultimate goal to never reach a final destination.
We are always in a hurry for the next big thing in our lives. We dream of a new house, a new job, a new adventure, looking around every corner for what is going to happen next. Maybe just maybe if we can learn to stop and enjoy the experience of the journey we will not only discover love but pure, genuine happiness.
A truly happy person is the one who can enjoy the scenery on a detour. – Greeting Card Cover