What Energy Do You Bring to the Universe?
“You’ve got the music in you….One dance left…..This world is gonna pull through
Don’t give up…..You’ve got a reason to live….Can’t forget….We only get what we give” – New Radicals
A few years back I began making notes for a post on bar coasters. I don’t know about you, but so many times in my life, things begin to happen around me that I feel why am I getting a front row seat for this moment. Life acts, played out like a carefully scripted reality TV show. Is the universe calling, does life place us in the process, do we mindfully end up in these moments, or is our energy bringing us the show?
In this one situation, I was a bystander, sitting at a bar having breakfast and sipping on a mimosa. This moment, encompassed both a personal and professional conjunction that announced an ending to decades of relationships. And it began by a simple delivery of product from a beer distributor inquiring to the bartender if they knew why an establishment wasn’t open that morning. As the server also worked at the other location, he quickly made a call, only to find out that it had closed last night without any notice at all. All of sudden the wheels were put into motion as the phone tree began to spread the news and link the evidence.
I knew just enough about the situation, to sit and wonder, why now, what was I to gain to be placed here eating Eggs Benedict? But it was the energy that I felt that really hit home. Why was I absorbing all the hurt, confusion, and dismay of the strangers and even care enough to eavesdrop on the scenario?
For my birthday I decided to treat myself to a Tarot Card reading. A long time fan of this art form, I firmly believe that money spent on a yearly reading is a far better investment (and frankly more positive) than consulting with your corner psychologist. Thanks to google and yelp, I stumbled upon a very nice Japanese woman, who in my opinion, not only gave a great reading, but treated the visit more business like and less hocus pocus. Not only did she shed light on many key issues, but really hit the nail on the head of my current life position.
One concept that she brought forward, is that she told me I was an empath. Having no clue of the definition of an empath, I quickly inquired what characterizes such a person? She then asked if I was a sensitive person. I quickly responded not really. I am not one to sit around and cry or get emotional at every sappy commercial. But that wasn’t the type of sensitivity she was referring to, it was do I pick up on energy? A giant light bulb went off in my head. Being a believer that we all carry energy, I have always noted to my close friends that I can read others energy. More like if your energy is negative or false, I put out a vibe to stay clear as I will see right thru your nonsense. Basically, there is a zero protection field surrounding me. Each and every situation I experience, I am invested 110%.
Hasi, my reader, suggested a few books for me to read to find out more on the subject. Being the resourceful girl that I am, I quickly went to my library app and requested a copy be delivered four blocks down the street. This weekend I spent some time reviewing the topic and a few things came to light. Some of the “ah ha” moments include:
1 – Empaths need sleep. As you are built with basically no filter or boundary to block out energy coming or going, your body needs time to rejuvenate. I have always required a good eight hours sleep and closer to nine is ever better.
2 – Water, empaths love water. Read the following blog post from a year ago. The calm that is gained from time on my balcony is unmeasurable. (alittlebitaboutalotofthings.com/2018/02/19/just-go-to-the-water/)
3 – Crowds of people make me uncomfortable. I always thought my need to sit in the back of the room and be able to see the landscape, came from a lifetime of being with my Dad. But, after doing a little research, I believe it is also one of the coping mechanisms that I have introduced into my life to protect my energy.
4 – Set limits and boundaries. After a few years in the classroom, I began to develop the habit of controlling my day, instead of allowing the day to just unfold randomly. Being productive and having the feeling of completion results in self-satisfaction in my world. It is uncomfortable to have the day “hijacked” by interruptions and drop in meetings.
After absorbing all this new information, the subject matter got me thinking. In the today’s world there is so much negativity. Scan your social media sites, watch the news, or listen to the conversation next to you at the local café, people today focus on the bad. I am not saying that there aren’t events that have happened to lead people down this path, but if all our energy stays focused on the negative, how can we ever feel the good?
I avoid large groups, conflicted conversations, and areas that wreak of lots of noisy energy. Some think I am unfriendly, I have been told I am intimidating (which makes me giggle, as I am the biggest marshmallow inside), or that I am hard to approach. When I am working, there are times I am in deep thought, and these characteristics arise. But for the most part, it is just my energy trying to stay in the zone and not bounce around collecting all the particles of useless matter floating in the universe.
My life will continue to have countless “reality TV” show moments. I attract it and, at times, secretly love it. But in the end, I have learned to own my outwardly vibe. The energy you bring forth everyday matters. Be aware and own it, I dare you. On my way to exercise this morning, the above song came on the radio, and the lyric “you only get what you give” just seemed to sum up all these thoughts. If you constantly state the glass is half empty, then guess what you are going to get pretty thirsty.
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